 Positive Personality Vis-À-Vis Individuality
In all our lives we must have faced situations where we have been told how we lack a personality. Then for the rest of our life we spend wondering how to build an attractive, charming and positive personality. We spend our time, money and energy in studying and searching for books, movies and various sources to unravel the secrets of an spirited and more alluring personality to attract people, love and happiness in our life forgetting the truth that it’s not our superficial personality but the inner reality, that matters in the long run.
Let me shatter some of your brittle and fake beliefs on personality which one often confuses as synonymous to individuality. You might exude a nerdy, sexy, geeky, dull, smart, charming, sweet, attractive, cute, happy personality in the eyes of society and thus you start associating yourself with personalities as noticed by your parents, friends, relatives, teachers or colleagues. This leads you to wear a fake mask every time you face them forgetting about your real and true self, your intrinsic nature and your birthright-that is your own ‘Individuality’, something that has been there within you since the day you were born. As you fall a prey to these imposed array of personality, you drift apart from your mystic identity and your real original self. This mask against our nature makes our life burdensome, miserable and ambiguous leading to lifelong imprisonment to sufferings of fake personality and suffocation of your soul. We become so pretentious wearing so many versatile personalities in different situations with different people that it offends us to hear the truth that we are not what we portray. Mistaking your personality as your identity has fostered troubles in our professional and personal relationships and creates conflicts, arguments, fights and ego battles as our rigid personality doesn’t allow us to mould or mend according to situations and rejects to accept criticisms constructively for self improvement. Thus we lose tact, empathy, compassion and patience to deal with people and life.
On the other hand, your Individuality is not afraid of anything. It is the inborn goodness and humanity that you are born with and it is your real original self which is unique, unchangeable and true. With the power of positive thinking you can develop your personality and keep improving it for better and even better. It is individuality as well as positive personality profiles that harbor the inner innocence and spontaneity, the true essence, natural charm and sincerity of an individual. It is time, be yourself, free yourself from this deceptive mask and face yourself boldly!
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